{"id":1254,"date":"2013-02-15T07:51:32","date_gmt":"2013-02-15T15:51:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/calebstrong.org\/?p=1254"},"modified":"2013-02-15T07:51:32","modified_gmt":"2013-02-15T15:51:32","slug":"we-dont-miss-them-until-theyre-gone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/man-skilz.com\/index.php\/2013\/02\/15\/we-dont-miss-them-until-theyre-gone\/","title":{"rendered":"We don&#8217;t miss them until they&#8217;re gone."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am currently sitting at the dining room table. It&#8217;s a table I have sat at a few times before on visits to Grammy and Papa Joe&#8217;s home. The difference today, is that today, both of them are with our Lord. There will be no hug from Grammy at the breakfast table. I won&#8217;t be seeing Papa Joe&#8217;s great big smile.<br \/>It&#8217;s not that this was fully unexpected. When Papa Joe passed last year, I knew that Grammy was not going to keep running this race much longer without him. Grammy and Grampa were very interdependant. I say that with much adoration. They did everything together. Sure, Grammy was a technophile. She had a highly ranked web log ( blog ) and really loved her atomic clock\/thermometer. Papa did his own thing too. But they were amazing to watch together. They shared much love and that love poured out onto their grand kids.<br \/>But as I sit here, going through drawers of ketchup packets, I realize that I did not visit as often as I said I would, our even as often as I could have. I didn&#8217;t take time to show them how much I loved and respected them. I truly did not appreciate them, out honor them as I should have.<br \/>So I am calling you out gentlemen. Love on your families. Let them know you cherish them. Tell them how much they mean to you. I am not just talking about your wife or your kids. When was the last time you called your mother (do I sound like a Jewish grand ma?). Have you told your dad how much you appreciate him? If your grand parents are still alive, when did you last see them?<br \/>Make an effort men. Let us remember to show love and honor to our family. Forgive past griefs and lets be leaders at home today. Don&#8217;t wait until they are gone to show them honor.<\/p>\n<p>May God bless you all, and may He bless each of your families today.<br \/>Thanks for reading.<\/p>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am currently sitting at the dining room table. It&#8217;s a table I have sat at a few times before on visits to Grammy and Papa Joe&#8217;s home. The difference today, is that today, both of them are with our Lord. There will be no hug from Grammy at the breakfast table. 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